🪴 3-2-1: On nuanced thinking, real love, and training your attention

Dec 29, 2025

Here are this week’s 3 ideas, 2 ICYMI, and 1 big question to reflect upon.

“As a general rule, if your attitude about a complex issue sounds like it could fit nicely on a poster on a protest line: it's probably wrong.”

~ Chris Ferguson

II.

“The most accurate metric for your love of someone is how you feel about their flaws.”

~ Mark Manson

III.

“To improve your life:

Focus on what you like instead of dislike.

Focus on people who focus on what they like instead of dislike.”

~ Gurwinder Bhogal

II.

What’s one thing you dislike in the world that you give a lot of attention to, and what would happen if you starved it of that focus this week?

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